Church Planter, Christmas isn't Everything

Christmas is here. Those words provide a level of excitement and dread for most pastors. The time is filled with holiday parties, staff get togethers, church programs, and it is busy. The Christmas season will create momentum in your church and community. People naturally come together to celebrate the holidays. Because of that, Christmas is a momentum builder in the church. As a church planter, you want to make sure you leverage the season and momentum well.

Do a Christmas series with a Christmas Eve Service as the finale. Make sure you invite your neighbors and community to come and enjoy the evening together. Sing Christmas carols, eat your fill of cookies and drink lots of hot chocolate. Find a way to bring some of the best family traditions into the church celebration. In our community, having a Christmas Eve service was always a local favorite.

My favorite Christmas Eve service was held in the movie theater while simultaneously movies were being shown all around. We got permission from the theater management to give out free Christmas cookies to people coming to church or going to a movie. It provided a great opportunity to connect with people in the community who would never think about coming to church. We witnessed people on our guest service team talk people out of attending their movie and joining us for a Christmas Eve service.

I love the Christmas season. However, in all honesty, I actually began to dread the time of year. After doing six Christmas Eve services, my family was beginning to dread me on Christmas. It is a challenging season in which we minister. Here are a few things I learned along the journey and my hope is they help you in yours:

• Make family a priority. What does that look like? First, make room in your schedule to attend school Christmas programs, to go shopping with your spouse and to bake and decorate cookies as a family. Refuse to bump those family times and memories. Communicate clearly and early with your family about the church schedule and don’t require them to be at every program and activity.
• Be prepared. During the fall work ahead on the Christmas series and Christmas Eve service. It comes around every year and having done much of the prep before it arrives will allow you to enjoy the season that much more.
• Cancel all unnecessary meetings in the month of December. They are always poorly attended. Everyone is overbooked with parties and family commitments. Love your family and your volunteers by giving them the month off of meetings.
• Preach the Christmas story. Don’t be anxious about having to be overly creative and having to put a new spin on Christmas. Christmas is God’s story. It is powerful and beautiful the way that it is. People will value you for telling and retelling the Christmas story. Some of our best moments during the Christmas season happened when I just took time to tell the story of Christmas with low lighting and music in the background.
• I know this one sounds crazy but consider canceling the Sunday service between Christmas and New Year’s Day. That Sunday is a probably the lowest attended Sunday of the year. Instead, create a devotional that families can download and do as a family at home. The demand on volunteers are so high in a church plant that your volunteers will love you for giving them a week off. And trust me, some people will tell you the world will end if you cancel a Sunday service. It won’t.

This Christmas season be careful that you don’t lose sight of the star of wonder. Sometimes ministry has an ability to drown out the power and majesty of what God actually did in the Christmas story. Take time this season to lay down the professional perspective of Christmas and connect personally with the love story of God. Christmas is about a Holy God stepping into time, space, and history so that you could be reconnected into a right relationship with Him through Jesus. Christmas is nothing short than incredible.

Have fun this Christmas season, and may your bells have extra jingle. Let these words of Isaiah be a place of comfort this season:

“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of his government and of peace there will be no end, on the throne of David and over his kingdom, to establish it and to uphold it with justice and with righteousness from this time forth and forevermore. The zeal of the LORD of hosts will do this” (Isaiah 9:6-7 ESV).